I am extremely excited to become a parent. I absolutely love babies, especially my niece and nephew. I'm actually the only girl sibling in my family that hasn't had a baby yet.. not that I'm ready or anything. I still have college to go through. I want to be able to support my child the best I can.
Most people learn to parent by how their parents parenting style is. If some children had bad parenting, usually they learn by that. They want whats best for their children.. but not all people are that way.
When I was a little girl my mom used to drive me and my brother Zach around just to get us to fall asleep. She would play music that was so soothing. That's something that I will probably use with my children also. My mom did so many different things that made her an amazing parent. She was a mother and a father to me. She is my absolute best friend, and I hope to have a daughter as my best friend like she does.
I never saw my dad when I was a little girl because of his bad decisions. I didn't really "know" my dad until I was about 15 years old when I moved in with him. These past 3 and a half years have been the closest I've ever been to my father. I'm not saying I wish I had a different dad, but I wish he could have been there for me as I was growing up. I hope to choose a guy that will stick with his child and not give up like mine did. I don't wanna make the same mistake as my mom. I will be picky about the"love of my life". I want whats best for me and mostly, my children.
Maybe you have said this before and I forgot, but why did you move in with your dad when you loved living with your mom?
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